Me and my love circa 1989 We met each other in high school as freshmen. I was 14. On June 30, 1989 we were married at Crossroads Bible Church in San Jose, California. I still remember the cake fight in the parking lot with my new father-in-law and singing “My Funny Valentine” to my new bride at the reception. I attribute most congratulations for our matrimony to my beloved Tammy, who has moved into 13 different residences and 7 cities on the journey we have had in life and in ministry. She has lovingly and graciously supported me through all the ups and downs, better or worse seasons, and is more lovable than ever to me through it all. So, this is surely a happy anniversary!